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ABCD of Happiness


A--Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C--Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

D--Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E--Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F--Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G--GrowLeave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H--Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I--Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J--Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.

K--Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L--LoveLet love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M--Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N--Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O--Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.

P--PlayNever forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q--Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.

R--Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S--Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T--TryEven when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U--Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

V--Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W--Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X--X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y--Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Z--Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Value of Time

  • To realize The value of four years:
    Ask a graduate.
  • To realize The value of one year:
    Ask a student who Has failed a final exam.
  • To realize The value of nine months:
    Ask a mother who gave birth to a still born.
  • To realize The value of one month:
    Ask a mother who has given birth to A premature baby.
  • To realize The value of one week:
    Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.
  • To realize The value of one hour:
    Ask the lovers who are waiting to Meet.
  • To realize The value of one minute:
    Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane.
  • To realize The value of one-second:
    Ask a person Who has survived an accident.
  • To realize The value of one millisecond:
    Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics
  • Time waits for no one.
    Treasure every moment you have.
  • You will treasure it even more when
    you can share it with someone special.
  • To realize the value of a friend: Lose one

Winner vs. Loser


  • Winners have dreams;
    Losers have schemes.
  • Winners see the grains;
    Losers see the pain.
  • Winners see the potential;
    Losers see the past.
  • Winners make it happen;
    Losers let it happen.
  • Winners see possibilities;
    Losers see problems.
  • Winners makes commitments;
    Losers makes promises.
  • Winners are a part of the team;
    Losers are apart from the team.
  • Winner always has a programmed
    Loser always has an excuse.
  • Winner says "Let me do it for you";
    Loser says "That is not my job".
  • Winners say "I must do something";
    Losers say "Something must be done".
  • Winner is always a part of the answer;
    Loser is always a part of the problem.
  • Winner sees an answer for every problem;
    Loser sees a problem for every answer.
  • Winners believe in win/win;
    Loser believe for them to win, someone has to lose.
  • Winner says "It may be difficult but it is possible";
    Loser says "It may be possible but it is too difficult".
  • Winner makes a mistake. He says "I was wrong";
    Loser makes a mistake; he says "It wasn't my fault".

Laws of Success

  • Do you want something -- Will you pay the price.
  • The great sin -- Gossip.
  • The great crippler -- Fear.
  • The greatest mistake -- Giving up.
  • The most satisfying experience -- Doing your duty first.
  • The best action -- Keep the mind clear and judgment good.
  • The greatest blessing -- Good health.
  • The biggest fool - The man who lies to himself.
  • The great gamble -- Substituting hope for facts.
  • The most certain thing in life -- Change.
  • The greatest joy -- Being needed.
  • The cleverest man -- The one who does what he thinks is right.
  • The most potent force -- Positive thinking.
  • The greatest opportunity -- The next one.
  • The greatest thought -- God.
  • The greatest victory -- Victory over self.
  • The best play -- Successful work.
  • The greatest handicap -- Egotism.
  • The most expensive indulgence -- Hate.
  • The most dangerous man -- The liar.
  • The most ridiculous trait -- False pride.
  • The greatest loss -- Loss of self confidence.
  • The greatest need -- Common sense.

7 Gifts to a Friend

The month has many birthdays for my family and friends. What gifts would I get? As I was reading some quotes, I found myself wishing I could give these gifts that I cannot buy.
  1. The Gift of Love
    May you find love in your family and your friends. And may you share the love you have to give. When you share your love, it comes back to you in many forms.
    "Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within the reach of every hand." - Mother Teresa -
    "To live a little, you've got to love a whole lot. Love turns the ordinary into the extraordinary." Author Unknown
  2. The Gift of Laughter -
    May laughter fill your home, relieve your stress, and strengthen your friendships. Do not let a day go buy without laughing; it is good for your health.
    "Laughter is a tranquilizer with no side effects." - Arnold Glasow -
    "Let there be more joy and laughter in your living." - Eileen Caddy -
  3. The Gift of Living Each Day to The Fullest -Every day is a gift, and may you use this gift by living life to the fullest. You will never have this day again. What will you do with it?
    "Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That's why we call it the present." - Babatunde Olatunji -
    "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle." - Albert Einstein -
  4. The Gift of Not Worrying -
    May your days be worry-free. If you find yourself worrying about something then fix it. If it is beyond your control, then there is no sense in worrying about it. 90% of what you worry about will never happen, so why worry!
    "I've seen many troubles in my time, only half of which ever came true." - Mark Twain -
    "When I look back on all the worries I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which never happened." - Sir Winston Churchill -
  5. The Gift of Positive Thinking -
    May you find the good in all situations, even if you have to look for it - look because it is there. No matter what happens in your life, find the good. Your life will be a happier one.
    Every problem has a gift for you in its hands. - Richard Bach -
    "There are always flowers for those who want to see them." - Henri Matisse -
  6. The Gift of Balance in Your Life -
    May you find the balance of life, time for work but also time for play. Too much of one thing ends up creating stress that no one needs in their life.
    "Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some." - Robert Fulghum -
    In fact, everyone should take time out once in a while to recharge and revitalize their energy. The key is to have a balanced life." - Michael Lee, CPA -
  7. The Gift of Goal Setting -May all your dreams turn into goals. Goals will help you accomplish things you may have thought impossible.
    "If you have a goal in life that takes a lot of energy, that requires a lot of work, that incurs a great deal of interest and that is a challenge to you, you will always look forward to waking up to see what the new day brings." - Susan Polis Schultz -
    "Goals determine what you're going to be." - Julius Erving -

199 Love Quotes


199 Love Quotes Collection -
Collection of romantic love quotes from famous authors, & other romantic sources. These love quotes are simply for showing your love. Scroll down to see the romantic love quotes.
 

Love Quotes

  1. Dear cute...Love is the best medicine, and there is more than enough to go around once you open your heart. please open your heart 4 me with love.
  2. Love the heart that hurts you, but never hurt the heart that loves you. Please don't hurt my heart.
  3. Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less good for u. LOVE MORE and all good things will be yours.
  4. When two people love each other, they don't look at each other, they look in the same direction. Believe it or not.
  5. We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another. You want to become angel? Come I will give my wing. Love you so much.
  6. Don't say you love me unless you really mean it, because I might do something crazy like believe it!.
  7. Love is like a roller coaster. Once you have completed the ride, you want to go again. We will love for rest of our life.
  8. Love bears all things, Love believes all things, Love hopes all things, and most precious of all, Love endures all things. Come we love and make things happy.
  9. If death is the only way we will part then let me die with you because I cannot live without you. BUT I cannot die because my heart is with you.
  10. Nt allowed without love is an empty experience, but, as empty experiences go, it's one of the best in the world.
  11. If 'I love you' is only three words, why is it worth a million?. Because you know Love will do miracles.
  12. How lucky I am to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to. Love you dear.
  13. We are each an angel with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing each other.
  14. If you live to be 100 yrs, I want to live to be 100 yrs minus one day, so I never have to live without you. I Cant live with out U.
  15. I knew I would look back on my tears and laugh, but I never thought I would look back on my laughs and cry. Please don't hurt me darling.
  16. Everyone hears what you say. I listen to what you say. Best Lover listen to what you don't say.
  17. A memory lasts forever, Never does it die. True Lovers stay together And never said goodbye. Donot say good bye to me my sweet heart.
  18. A road to a your house is never long for me. Because you are in my heart house.
  19. I'm not the same since i met u, the days turned longer the nights turned colder and u will always have a special place in my heart just 4 u :) I LOVE YOU.
  20. Love is when u don't want to go to sleep because reality is better than a dream. I will not sleep 2day. Waiting for you.
  21. ast night I looked up at the stars, And matched each one with a reason why I love you. Till I cannot matched.
  22. When I saw u afraid 2 meet you, When I met u, afraid 2 like you, When I liked u afraid 2 love you, But now that I LOVE U .I am afraid 2 lose u. love me for ever.
  23. If I would be a tear in your eye I will roll down on your cheek and die on your lip and if you would be a tear in my eye I will never cry by a fear of losing you.
  24. Love makes life so confusing and difficult but without love would you want to live?. With out you I cannot breath also. Because my heart is with u.
  25. If you love me like you told me please be careful with my heart you can take it; just don't break it.

Love Quotes Collection

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  • Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.
  • To live without loving is to not really live.
  • As you continue to send out love, the energy returns to you in a regenerating spiral. As love accumulates, it keeps your system in balance and harmony. Love is the tool, and more love is the end product.
  • Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
  • Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you: I had no control over.
  • No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever.
  • Harmonizing heart and brain through love is what can establish a complete intelligence, a complete self, where a child can look at life and realize there are no dead ends, there are always possibilities. The greatest gift a parent can give a child during all the ups and downs of life is love.
  • The quarrels of lovers are like summer storms. Everything is more beautiful when they have passed.
  • Love is like a mustard seed; planted by God and watered by men.
  • Love conquers all things; let us too surrender to love.
  • Love is born of faith, Lives on hope, And dies of charity.
  • Love is when you're in their arms and everything just fits.
  • I don't want to live-- I want to love first, And live incidentally.
  • There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
  • Love is something eternal, The aspect may change, But not the essence.
  • Love is like a thread, slender and frail, but when woven together with another creates a sail which carries the ship of the heart to its sea of endless love, together.
  • You know you are in love when you see the world in her eyes, and her eyes everywhere in the world.
  • Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
  • You are the brightest part of my day and the warmest part of my night.
  • Love is strong yet delicate. It can be broken. To truly love is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this.
  • I love you simply because it's you..
  • When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
  • Love is the best medicine, and there is more than enough to go around once you open your heart.
  • Love cannot only be found in the good times, but also when are able to stay strong after a storm.
  • Our true identity is to love without fear and insecurity. Our higher potential finds us when we set our course in that direction. The power of love and compassion transforms insecurity.
  • Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more
    than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.
  • Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
  • Love is not automatic. It takes conscious practice and awareness, just like playing the piano or golf. However, you have ample opportunities to practice. Everyone you meet can be your practice session.
  • We sat side by side in the morning light and looked out at the future together.
  • Love isn't just for the smart of talented, but for all the amimals God created.
  • Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.
  • True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
  • Love is like a mountain, hard to climb, but once you get to the top the view is beautiful.
  • Love is fire. But whether it's gonna warm your heart or burn your house down you can never tell.
  • It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and an day to love someone..
    but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
  • There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.
  • Love is not blind - It sees more and not less, but because it sees more it is willing to see less.
  • In order to create there must be a dynamic force, and what force is more potent than love?
  • It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else, but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
  • If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.
  • Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds and warming your soul.
  • Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
  • If love is the answer, can you please repeat the question ?
  • Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.
  • To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
  • Faith makes all things possible. Love makes them easy.
  • Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much perfoms much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.
  • Love is smiling on the inside and out. Love is a moment that lasts forever.
  • To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.
  • I believe that to truly Love, is the ultimate expression of the will to live. A heart that truly loves is forever young.
  • Love isn't blind; it just only sees what matters.
  • In all that we do let us do it for love.
  • Love makes life so confusing, but without love would you really want to live?
  • You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
  • Love that is true never grows old.
  • Love is friendship set on fire.
  • Do you love me because I am beautiful or am I beautiful because I am loved?
  • Love is the force that ignites the spirit and binds teams together.
  • Love reminds you that nothing else matters.
  • Where there is great love there are always miracles.
  • Love me now, love me never, but if you love me, love me forever.
  • To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another.
  • A Friend's Love says: " If you ever need anything, I'll be there." True Love says: " You'll never need anything; I'll be there."
  • Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved.
  • Three things of life that are most valuable - Love, self-confidence & friends.
  • Loves conquers all things except poverty and toothache.
  • Love is a decision not an emotion or feeling, that if made from the heart will outlast anything.
  • Love and magic have a great deal in common. They enrich the soul, delight the heart. And they both take practice.
  • Love is like heaven, but it can hurt like hell.
  • Love is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.
  • Love is more than a feeling; it's a state of mind.
  • He taught me how to love, but not how to stop.
  • Love is like a blazing flame, golden and full of warmth.
  • In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.
  • Of all forms of caution, caution in love is the most fatal.
  • Love is the emblem of eternity; it confounds all notions of time; effaces all memory of beginning, all fear of an end.
  • The most important things to do in the world are to get something to eat, something to drink and somebody to love you
  • We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
  • A bell is not a bell until someone rings it, a song is not a song until someone sings it.
  • Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.
  • Many a young lady does not realize just how strong her love for a young man is until he fails to pass the approval test with her parents.
  • What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.
  • Love wasn't put in the heart to stay, for love isn't love 'til you give it away.
  • Is it better for a woman to marry a man who loves her than a man she loves.
  • Love is like a piece of art work, even the smallest bit can be so beautiful.
  • No one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
  • Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh.
  • Love is sweet, delicate, dreamy an eternity of gorgeous moments.
  • Where there is love, there is God also.
  • Romance is the fuel that keeps love burning hot.
  • The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
  • Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.
  • Love, The key that unlocks the bars of impossibility.
  • Love cures people -- both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.
  • No matter what, no matter where, it's always home, if love is there.
  • Real love is feeling like being a part of that person's life almost isn't enough. It's more like a feeling that you would live in the same skin with them if you could and share every thought, heart beat, and emotion as one.
  • One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.
  • Love is when you look into someone's eyes and see their heart.
  • When they asked me what I loved most about life, I smiled and said you.
  • Love is something you can't describe like the look of a rose, the smell of the rain, or the feeling of forever.

36 Love Quotes



  1. "Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired."
    - Robert Frost
  2. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
    - Helen Keller
  3. "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul."
    - Judy Garland
  4. "Love is an energy which exists of itself. It is its own value."
    - Thornton Wilder
  5. "Love sought is good, but given unsought is better."
    - William Shakespeare
  6. "There is nothing holier in this life of ours than the first consciousness of love, the first fluttering of its silken wings."
    - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
  7. "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."
    - Aristotle
  8. "There is no remedy for love but to love more."
    - Thoreau
  9. "Where there is love there is life."
    - Gandhi
  10. "There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness."
    - Friedrich Nietzsche
  11. "Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance."
    - Oscar Wilde
  12. "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
    -1 Corinthians 13:4-7
  13. "There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved."
    - George Sand
  14. "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage."
    - Lao Tzu
  15. "The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss."
    - Unknown
  16. "The best feelings are those that have no words to describe them...."
    - Michelle Hammersley
  17. "Love is a little haven of refuge from the world."
    -Bertrand A. Russell
  18. "The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart."
    - Timothy Titcomb (J.G. Holland)
  19. "Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride whorthwhile."
    - Franklin P. Jones
  20. "Love builds bridges where there are none."
    - R.H. Delaney
  21. "It is best to love wisely, no doubt; but to love foolishly is better than not to be able to love at all."
    - William Thackeray
  22. "Talking of love is making it."
    - William G. Benham
  23. "The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along."
    - Maulana Jalalu'd din Rumi
  24. "I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you."
    - Roy Croft
  25. "Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could."
    - Barbara De Angelis
  26. "You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without."
    - Unknown
  27. "Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction."
    - Saint-Exupery
  28. "If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you've made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand."
    - Unknown
  29. "You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly."
    - Sam Keen
  30. "Love is always bestowed as a gift -- freely, willingly, and without expectation.... We don't love to be loved; we love to love."
    - Leo Buscaglia
  31. "You love simply because you cannot help it."
    - Kim Anderson
  32. "Love is the life of the soul. It is the harmony of the universe."
    - William Ellery Channing
  33. "You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love."
    - Henry Drummond
  34. "A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful for a good one."
    - Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings
  35. "Love is, above all, the gift of oneself."
    - Jean Anouilh
  36. "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."
    - Henry Ward Beecher

Write Love Letter



How To Write a Love Letter
  1. Use terms of endearment or personal meaning. If the two of you use special nicknames for each other, include them in your letter. Or try out some new sweet names that suggest your loved one's characteristics or personality. Don't stop with using such terms in the greeting; mention them occasionally throughout the letter in expressions like these: "My dear Janice" (rather than "Dear Janice") "It's been a long week without my dear one..." "Your amber eyes are often in my thoughts."
  2. Reflect on the past. Mention special times the two of you shared, whether it was when you met, how you courted, conflicts you overcame, or celebrations you've shared. A common history is a hallmark of longevity and helps to bond a couple over time. You may want to remind the loved one of certain people you used to visit or events you attended together. Make your letter a bit nostalgic to rouse the reader's sentiment.
  3. Celebrate the present. Talking about current events makes them more real, even when you cannot be together to enjoy them. Describe recent times you spent together, even if they were simple things like raking leaves or sipping iced tea on the front porch. Everyday memories have a special magic of their own when shared with someone we care deeply about. Putting them into words that remain permanently etched in writing give them a memorable quality that helps to brand them in both writer and reader's memory for future reflection. Here's an example: "Do you remember last summer when we had that argument about country music while in the car? I noticed how pretty you looked, your cheeks on fire, your eyes aflame, when you spoke with such passion! I loved you then, and even more now, despite any disagreements we may have."
  4. Anticipate the future. Write about planned events or long-term goals that the two of you can share. Whether it's about saving money or going on a cruise, the very notion of working toward a mutual cause will bring the two of you closer even in writing: "I really appreciate your giving up coffee mochas to save for our Alaska cruise next year. I can tell this means a lot to you, and I can't wait for us to share this adventure together. My contribution is giving up commercial car washes; I'll wash the Chevy myself from now on. Every little bit helps!"
  5. Close with a romantic conclusion. The last words you write may well be the ones that are longest remembered. Include tender expressions of your affection, a physical caress indicated in words, and the hope of being reunited soon. The letter becomes a guarantee of your regard and a promise of continued commitment.
  6. Use attractive stationery. Get a pretty card or nice-looking paper with matching envelopes for your note. Hand-write it if possible. Keep it clean and folded neatly. Mail it promptly, so you don't forget or lose it. Writing a love letter does not have to be difficult. It just takes a few minutes of thoughtful concern to put into words the sincere feelings that lodge in your heart.

Love Quiz

  1. You are walking to your love's house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain & boring. The other is curvy & full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your love's house.
    WHICH PATH DO YOU CHOOSE? Short or Long?
  2. On the way, you see two rose bushes. One is full of white roses, the other is full of red roses. You decide to pick twenty roses for your love. (You could pick all of the same coluor or half & half or whatever combination that suits your taste.)
    WHAT COLOUR COMBO DO YOU CHOOSE?
  3. You finally get to your love's house. You ring the bell & a family member answers the door. You can ask the family member to please get your love, or you may get him/her yourself.
    WHAT DO YOU DO? Ask or Get yourself?
  4. Now, You go up to your love's room. No one is there. You could leave the roses by the windowsill or on the bed.
    WHERE DO YOU PUT THE ROSES? Window or Bed?
  5. Later it's time for bed. You & your love go to sleep in separate rooms (we're very politically correct, here). You wake up in the morning & go to your love's room to check up on him/her. You enter the room:
    IS HE/SHE AWAKE OR SLEEPING?
  6. It's time to go home now & you start to head back. You can take either road home now. The plain & boring one that gets you home faster or the curvy & sight-filled road that you can just take your time with.
    WHICH ROAD DO YOU CHOOSE? Short or Long?
Now Analyze your Answers: -
QUESTION 1
The road represents your attitude towards falling in love. If you chose the short one, you fall in love quickly & easily. If you chose the long one, you take your time & do not fall in love that easily.

QUESTION 2The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in a relationship. The number of white roses represents how much you expect in a relationship. So, if a person chose all red with one white rose, he/she gives 90% in the relationship, but expects to receive only 10% back.

QUESTION 3This question shows your attitude in handling relationship problems. If you asked the family member to get your love, then you are the type who wants to avoid problems. If you went to get your love yourself, then you are pretty direct & solve the problem right away.

QUESTION 4
The placement of the roses indicate how often you would like to see your love. Putting the roses on the bed means, you want to see them a lot. If you placed the roses by the window this means you don't mind seeing each other once in a while.

QUESTION 5
Finding your love asleep: You accept your love the way they are. Finding them awake means you expect them to change for you.

QUESTION 6
The short & long roads now represent how long you could stay in love. If you chose the short one, you fall out of love easily. If you chose the long one, you tend to stay in love for a long, long time.

Love vs. Like



Difference between SomeOne u Love & SomeOne u Like
  • In front of the person u love, your heart beats faster.
    But in front of the person u like, u get happy.
  • In front of a person u love, winter seems like a spring.
    But in front of a person u like, winter is just a beautiful winter.
  • If u look into the eyes of the one u love, u blush.
    But if u look into the eyes of the one u like, u smile.
  • In front of a person u love, u can't say anything on your mind.
    But in front of a person u like, u can.
  • In front of the one u love, u tend to get shy.
    But in front of the one u like, u can show your own self.
  • You can't look straight into the eyes of the one u love.
    But u can always smile into the eyes of the one u like.
  • When the one u love is crying, u cry with him.
    But when the one u like is crying, u end up comforting him.
  • The feeling of love starts from the eye.
    But the feeling of liking starts from the ear.
  • So if u stop liking a person u used to like, all u need to do is close your ears.
    But if u try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear & remains in your heart forever.

If its True Love


- 5 Ways to know if its True Love -
 
Wondering if you've just met the perfect match? Here are some guidelines to help you decide if it's true love. After several dates, you feel you've found the perfect person. This is your dream mate, the one who will stand by you through thick and thin. You're ready to tie the knot at last.

But is it love? Or is it a cheap imitation, like infatuation, lust, or even simple companionship? Here are a few things to consider as you make the ultimate life-changing decision:
  1. Do you enjoy looking at the person or talking to the person more? Both are important to a mature relationship, but if you find yourself fixated on physical appearance, attracted to your mate because of face, figure, or form, you may be taking a superficial look at your loved one. On the other hand, you don't want to be taken in by flattery or false statements. If your significant other is all talk and no action, that can be a warning sign to drop the relationship before you end up with one broken promise after another. A balance of physical and mental attraction is a healthy signal.
  2. Are you willing to wait to make the relationship work? For example, if your mate pushes you to do things you don't feel comfortable with, can you firmly say no? Will your response be handled respectfully and with patience? It goes both ways, too. Are you willing to wait on your partner to get more serious when he or she is ready, or are you demanding more interaction now? Can you wait to marry until the other person finishes school or are you pushing to live together first? Patience is an important virtue associated with successful, long-term relationships.
  3. Do you support each other by anticipating and meeting needs? For example, if you need to work extra right now to pay off debt before getting married, does your mate understand that the situation is temporary and willingly wait for you to put in the extra hours at your job, rather than complain about your absence? If the person has a list of errands to run before the two of you can get together, do you offer to help?
  4. Are you friends? Companionship lasts much longer than ardor, generally speaking. People in their 70's, 80's, and 90's may lose some of their physical spontaneity, but they maintain a quest for fun and a shared life until the end. Do you laugh together? Enjoy similar activities? Share each other with friends and family? Or do you expect your perfect mate to spend all free time with you exclusively?
  5. Do you want what's best for this person, or do you want what this person can do to help you? For example, if your mate has the chance to get a wonderful job in another city, are you willing to pull up stakes and move, or will you expect the job opportunity to get tossed aside for you? Love means putting the other person's needs ahead of your own, even when that involves sacrifice. While blind agreement to any difference of opinion is unrealistic and unreasonable, a thoughtful discussion of what is better for each of you individually as well as both of you as a couple needs to take place. Loving another person involves self-sacrifice and compromise. If you are attracted to someone for whom you are unwilling to be patient and to share all parts of your life, you may have a lot of work to do or disappointment to deal with after the wedding. Take time now to assess your relationship with these and other factors to see if you can make a life that could last fifty years or more with the person of your dreams. Because when you wake up, your mate will still be there.

Heartbreak - 20 Solutions

 
Have you, at any point in your life, suffered a broken heart? Those waves of intense grief, emptiness, sadness, anger, confusion, heaviness and low self-esteem?
Depending on the kind of person you are and the situation, break-ups can be traumatic enough to affect your emotional and physical health.
They may say that no one ever died of a broken heart, but when you're suffering from one, it sure doesn't feel that way, at least initially.
Most people will tell you that you'll get over it or you'll meet someone else, but it seems easier said than done.

There are strategies that can lessen the pain. Here are 20 steps that can help -
  1. Be aware of your real intentions -
    Do you want to move past the break-up. Or do you harbour hopes of getting back with your ex? Define your emotional goal. You can't move on until you've truly accepted that the relationship is over.
  2. Make a clean break -
    Don't do the 'on-again-off-again' routine. It will only prolong the inevitable. Also, resist the urge to call your ex.
    How do you know if you are over your ex? That's the million-dollar question. A good indication is when you no longer want to get back together with the person. Additionally, when the thought of your ex having a relationship with someone else doesn't affect you. Although you might not necessarily be 'happy' for him/her, but if you have gotten over your ex, you won't care either way.
  3. Don't get self-destructive -
    Getting angry (or desperate), trying to hurt yourself or someone else, drinking or taking drugs to become numb and feel better, or locking yourself up in a dark room are not going to do anything to help your situation. These things don't actually deal with the pain, they only mask it, which only prolongs the sadness.
  4. Share your feelings -
    It could be with a friend or family member. Talking is a great way to cleanse your soul and ease your tension.
  5. Cry it out -
    Getting some of those raw emotions out can be a big help, so it's okay to cry as much as needed, irrespective of whether you are a a guy or a girl.
  6. Give your heart time to heal -
    It takes time for sadness to go away. This depends on what caused your heartbreak, how you deal with loss, and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things. Getting over a break-up can take a couple of days to many weeks -- and sometimes even months.
  7. Keep yourself busy -
    This can be difficult when you're coping with sadness and grief, but it really helps. Just make sure you busy yourself with positive activities like doing projects around the house, going on a trip, exercising, friend-time and focusing on studies or work. Don't get self destructive and at all costs avoid excesses of any kind.
  8. Watch a movie -
    To distract yourself, choose a comedy that has cheered you up before. Or watch one that's guaranteed to make you sob -- you might be surprised how good that makes you feel.
  9. Take a holiday/vacation or weekend off -
    Visit an old friend or go back home to your roots. A change of environment does wonders for the spirit. It recharges your batteries. It also gives you some time to think and find closure in a different setting.
  10. Surround yourself with friends -
    Interacting with others will help you in resuming a normal life balance. It may open up opportunities for new friendships too. Consider dating other people, but be wary of rebound relationships.
  11. Remind yourself of your good qualities -
    Often people with broken hearts blame themselves for what happened. Getting your self-esteem back on track is the key to your recovery.
  12. Focus on yourself -
    You're going through a tough time, so do the things that make you feel good again. Get a new hairstyle, have a spa day, dance, or go shopping. Get lots of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly to minimise stress and depression.
  13. Improve yourself -
    This is an opportunity to make a journey into self-discovery. Discover what you want from life and go after it.
  14. Get rid of the memories -
    Do your mourning and then put everything that reminds you of your ex in a box and seal it. Return it to them, throw it away, donate it to charity or ask a friend to hold on to it indefinitely. Get rid of anything that keeps you in the past, if it hurts.
  15. Learn from the break-up -
    Take the positives from it, and even more importantly, learn from the negatives. There's nothing worse than dragging your negative habits along with you to future relationships, because you'll just end up with the same result until you learn from your mistakes.
  16. Get out -
    Force yourself to go out even if you are feeling depressed. Go for a cup of coffee or a long walk.
  17. Move on -
    People who are dealing with a break up tend to play over past events in their head ad nauseum. This behaviour is normal in the early days of a break up but it can quickly become a dangerous and defeatist coping strategy. Remember that the end is just the beginning. Visualise your future, block out the past. Pick up the pieces and go after the kind of life and relationship you deserve.
  18. Don't punish your next partner -
    Judge future relationships on their own merits. Don't let paranoia from the past enter the present. If you live in the past too much, you aren't ready to be in another relationship yet. Learn to trust again. Don't let a bad experience keep you from living your life to the fullest.
  19. Consider getting professional help -
    Sometimes the sadness is so deep -- or lasts so long -- that one may need extra support. For a person who isn't starting to feel better after a few weeks or who continues to feel depressed, talking to a psychologist or counsellor or psychiatrist can be very helpful.
  20. Take charge -
    Find the courage to pull yourself out of this rut. Take charge of yourself and you will find that there actually is life after 'What's-His-Name' or 'What's-Her-Name'! You just need to make the decision so you can move on.
Take tiny steps each day and you will be amazed that you are starting to feel better. Lean on your friends and family, and remember, time will heal all wounds.

Love is not Possessive

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- Love is not possessive -
  • A truly creative person is one who breathes love every moment of his life.
  • By love I mean a sensitive heart and not a sentimental heart.
  • A sensitive heart experiences 'what is' with awe; a sentimental person reacts to 'what is'
Love is the only savior in this world. Love unites and hate divides.
Society has witnessed life based on likes and dislikes, on greed and hate and hence loveless lives. From the foundation of love, your likes and dislikes will become preferences, your greed will transform into a commitment to excel, and your hate will be transformed into concerns. People have preached about love but the undercurrent has been hate. A wise man has to be created with a new heart. A heart without love is on the path of destruction.
  • If your state of being is love then your struggles will also be sacred, or there will be no struggles at all.
  • If you are a lover of dogs then the tricks of the dogs become an act of joy.
  • We talk of love but we are not in a state of love.
  • We only pretend to be in love. Our pretensions become better and manipulative.
  • A deceptive front starts to build in us.
  • A deceptive and pretentious self is noisy and restless. You try to eliminate this restlessness by wrong means and then you throw the garbage of this restlessness on the other. This process makes relationships very messy.
When your state of being is love, then there is no manipulative game. You are silent and restful. This silence you shower on the partner and therefore, more than the intimacy, there is an exchange of silence. This quality of relationship is fulfilling.
  • Our love life is not love but desires masquerading as love.
  • Love makes no conditions.
  • Love never demands,
  • "Fulfill my expectations then I will love you." But most of our love life is like that.
Because of the demand, our relationships are like beggars begging from the other. If two beggars meet beggary is going to increase. In a state of love you will not be a beggar but a giver. Giving comes from love that has no conditions. The joy of giving is bigger than the petty logic of 'if' and 'but'.

When one is silent in the deepest core of one's being, love arises like a fragrance. Such love is unconditional; like the fragrance of the flower it does not create conditions regarding whom to give fragrance to and whom not to give. In this space you give love – and the person concerned is not obliged. You will feel grateful that there is someone who is receiving your love.
Conditional love sends out messages like this: “I have done so much for you, so now you should do this for me.” Or “I need your attention, your sympathy, your consent, your time, your presence, your love.” Or “I want you to live your life according to my beliefs and ideas.” “I need you to need me, and to look after me exactly the way I have in mind.” “And if you don’t do that, I will fall ill or become very unhappy.”

This kind of relationship is psychologically suffocating, and can be even physically suffocating, for the person(s) it concerns. It does not allow personal space to the other one. The path the other one has chosen for his/her life is deliberately surpassed for the sake of someone’s egocentric purposes.

Deep down hidden in the soul of the demanding and possessive person dwells a needy little child, longing for love and appreciation. Under the surface lies deep seated insecurity and fear of loss, especially of relationships. They have difficulty with experiencing self-love and self-acceptance, and the behavior they show is a great example of compensation.
The whole economics of love is that you become richer when you give love.

Love vs Infatuation

- Love vs Infatuation -

What, then, is the elusive thing called "Love" that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as "Infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here below are the differences.
Find out if you are really in love and not just infatuated.
Infatuation -
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the Emotions and the Will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Gentlemen, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation. It is based totally on physical attraction; Often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus infatuation is mostly biological.
Also remember, never tell a woman you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other person.
Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.

Love - Now you understand what is infatuation, let us now go on to discuss about Love.
  1. Love is Patient -
    The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out of her shell, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view – maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, Love is willing to give the relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.

  2. Love is Kind -
    Love seeks to encourage and build up on others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy, i.e. Compliment one another, magnify the other's strength, Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important, etc.

  3. Love is not Jealous -
    Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

  4. Love is not to Brag -
    Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often, a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself. Others will exalt him.

  5. Love is not Arrogant -
    Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky or stuck up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude . Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanor implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you". Of course this is not love.

  6. Love always Covers -
    This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with faults of others. It doesn't criticize or broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is present even when it knows the other is not perfect.

  7. Love always Perseveres -
    Love always stands its ground and holds out . It will outlast anything. It will even love on the face of unreturned love. Real love will last through all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

  8. Love is not Provoked -
    This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centered not self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I want to give you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

  9. Love does not act Unbecomingly -
    This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonorably, or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its actions. It is characterized by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl or offering her your arm when you walk together.

  10. Love is Forgiving -
    Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is only an hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

Secrets of Love



The Power Of Thought -

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The Power Of Respect -

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The Power Of Giving -

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The Power Of Friendship -

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Power Of Touch -

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Power Of Letting Go -

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The Power Of Communication -
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?

The Power Of Commitment -

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The Power Of Passion -
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Power Of Trust -

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

Failure Means

Truth about Failure -
  • Failure doesn't mean you are a failure...
    --- it does mean you haven't succeeded yet.
  • Failure doesn't mean you have accomplished nothing...
    --- it does mean you have learned something.
  • Failure doesn't mean you have been a fool...
    --- it does mean you had a lot of faith.
  • Failure doesn't mean you have been disgraced...
    --- it does mean you were willing to try.
  • Failure doesn't mean you don't have it...
    --- it does mean you have to do something in a different way.
  • Failure doesn't mean you are inferior...
    --- it does mean you are not perfect.
  • Failure doesn't mean you've wasted your life...
    --- it does mean you've got a reason to start afresh.
  • Failure doesn't mean you should give up...
    --- it does mean you should try harder.
  • Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it...
    --- it does mean it will take a little longer.

Proverbs & Sayings ( 200 to 500)

  1. Better a little fire to warm us, than a great one to burn us.
  2. Better an egg today than a hen tomorrow.
  3. Better an open enemy than a false friend.
  4. Better be alone than in bad company.
  5. Better be born lucky than rich.
  6. Better be envied than pitied.
  7. Better be the head of a dog than the tail of a lion.
  8. Better deny at once than promise long.
  9. Better die standing than live kneeling.
  10. Better early than late.
  11. Better give a shilling than lend a half-crown.
  12. Better go to bed supperless than rise in debt.
  13. Better late than never.
  14. Better lose a jest than a friend.
  15. Better one-eyed than stone-blind.
  16. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't.
  17. Better the foot slip than the tongue.
  18. Better to do well than to say well.
  19. Better to reign in hell, than serve in heaven.
  20. Better unborn than untaught.
  21. Better untaught than ill-taught.
  22. Between the cup and the lip a morsel may slip.
  23. Between the devil and the deep (blue) sea.
  24. Between two evils 'tis not worth choosing.
  25. Between two stools one goes (falls) to the ground.
  26. Between the upper and nether millstone.
  27. Betwixt and between.
  28. Beware of a silent dog and still water.
  29. Bind the sack before it be full.
  30. Birds of a feather flock together.
  31. Blind men can judge no colours.
  32. Blood is thicker than water.
  33. Borrowed garments never fit well.
  34. Brevity is the soul of wit.
  35. Burn not your house to rid it of the mouse.
  36. Business before pleasure.
  37. By doing nothing we learn to do ill.
  38. By hook or by crook.
  39. By the street of 'by-and-bye' one arrives at the house of 'Never'.
  40. Calamity is man's true touchstone.
  41. Care killed the cat.
  42. Catch the bear before you sell his skin.
  43. Caution is the parent of safety.
  44. Charity begins at home.
  45. Cheapest is the dearest.
  46. Cheek brings success.
  47. Children and fools must not play with edged tools.
  48. Children are poor men's riches.
  49. Choose an author as you choose a friend.
  50. Christmas comes but once a year, (but when it comes it brings good cheer).
  51. Circumstances alter cases.
  52. Claw me, and I will claw thee.
  53. Cleanliness is next to godliness.
  54. Company in distress makes trouble less.
  55. Confession is the first step to repentance.
  56. Counsel is no command.
  57. Creditors have better memories than debtors.
  58. Cross the stream where it is shallowest.
  59. Crows do not pick crow's eyes.
  60. Curiosity killed a cat.
  61. Curses like chickens come home to roost.
  62. Custom is a second nature.
  63. Custom is the plague of wise men and the idol of fools.
  64. Cut your coat according to your cloth.
  65. Death is the grand leveller.
  66. Death pays all debts.
  67. Death when it comes will have no denial.
  68. Debt is the worst poverty.
  69. Deeds, not words.
  70. Delays are dangerous.
  71. Desperate diseases must have desperate remedies.
  72. Diligence is the mother of success (good luck).
  73. Diseases are the interests of pleasures.
  74. Divide and rule.
  75. Do as you would be done by.
  76. Dog does not eat dog.
  77. Dog eats dog.
  78. Dogs that put up many hares kill none.
  79. Doing is better than saying.
  80. Don't count your chickens before they are hatched.
  81. Don't cross the bridges before you come to them.
  82. Don't have thy cloak to make when it begins to rain.
  83. Don't keep a dog and bark yourself.
  84. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
  85. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
  86. Don't sell the bear's skin before you've caught it.
  87. Don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you.
  88. Don't whistle (halloo) until you are out of the wood.
  89. Dot your i's and cross your t's.
  90. Draw not your bow till your arrow is fixed.
  91. Drive the nail that will go.
  92. Drunken days have all their tomorrow.
  93. Drunkenness reveals what soberness conceals.
  94. Dumb dogs are dangerous.
  95. Each bird loves to hear himself sing.
  96. Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.
  97. Easier said than done.
  98. East or West ? home is best.
  99. Easy come, easy go.
  100. Eat at pleasure, drink with measure.
  101. Empty vessels make the greatest (the most) sound.
  102. Enough is as good as a feast.
  103. Envy shoots at others and wounds herself.
  104. Even reckoning makes long friends.
  105. Every ass loves to hear himself bray.
  106. Every barber knows that.
  107. Every bean has its black.
  108. Every bird likes its own nest.
  109. Every bullet has its billet.
  110. Every country has its customs.
  111. Every dark cloud has a silver lining.
  112. Every day is not Sunday.
  113. Every dog has his day.
  114. Every dog is a lion at home.
  115. Every dog is valiant at his own door.
  116. Every Jack has his Jill.
  117. Every man has a fool in his sleeve.
  118. Every man has his faults.
  119. Every man has his hobby-horse.
  120. Every man is the architect of his own fortunes.
  121. Every man to his taste.
  122. Every miller draws water to his own mill.
  123. Every mother thinks her own gosling a swan.
  124. Every one's faults are not written in their foreheads.
  125. Every tub must stand on its own bottom.
  126. Every white has its black, and every sweet its sour.
  127. Every why has a wherefore.
  128. Everybody's business is nobody's business.
  129. Everything comes to him who waits.
  130. Everything is good in its season.
  131. Evil communications corrupt good manners.
  132. Experience is the mother of wisdom.
  133. Experience keeps a dear school, but fools learn in no other.
  134. Experience keeps no school, she teaches her pupils singly.
  135. Extremes meet.
  136. Facts are stubborn things.
  137. Faint heart never won fair lady.
  138. Fair without, foul (false) within.
  139. Fair words break no bones.
  140. False friends are worse than open enemies.
  141. Familiarity breeds contempt.
  142. Far from eye, far from heart.
  143. Fasting comes after feasting.
  144. Faults are thick where love is thin.
  145. Feast today and fast tomorrow.
  146. Fine feathers make fine birds.
  147. Fine words butter no parsnips.
  148. First catch your hare.
  149. First come, first served.
  150. First deserve and then desire.
  151. First think, then speak.
  152. Fish and company stink in three days.
  153. Fish begins to stink at the head.
  154. Follow the river and you'll get to the sea.
  155. Fool's haste is no speed.
  156. Fools and madmen speak the truth.
  157. Fools grow without watering.
  158. Fools may sometimes speak to the purpose.
  159. Fools never know when they are well.
  160. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.
  161. For the love of the game.
  162. Forbearance is no acquittance.
  163. Forbidden fruit is sweet.
  164. Forewarned is forearmed.
  165. Fortune favours the brave (the bold).
  166. Fortune is easily found, but hard to be kept.
  167. Four eyes see more (better) than two.
  168. Friends are thieves of time.
  169. From bad to worse.
  170. From pillar to post.
  171. Gentility without ability is worse than plain beggary.
  172. Get a name to rise early, and you may lie all day.
  173. Gifts from enemies are dangerous.
  174. Give a fool rope enough, and he will hang himself.
  175. Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.
  176. Give him an inch and he'll take an ell.
  177. Give never the wolf the wether to keep.
  178. Gluttony kills more men than the sword.
  179. Go to bed with the lamb and rise with the lark.
  180. Good clothes open all doors.
  181. Good counsel does no harm.
  182. Good health is above wealth.
  183. Good masters make good servants.
  184. Good words and no deeds.
  185. Good words without deeds are rushes and reeds.
  186. Gossiping and lying go hand in hand.
  187. Grasp all, lose all.
  188. Great barkers are no biters.
  189. Great boast, small roast.
  190. Great cry and little wool.
  191. Great spenders are bad lenders.
  192. Great talkers are great liars.
  193. Great talkers are little doers.
  194. Greedy folk have long arms.
  195. Habit cures habit.
  196. Half a loaf is better than no bread.
  197. "Hamlet" without the Prince of Denmark .
  198. Handsome is that handsome does.
  199. Happiness takes no account of time.
  200. Happy is he that is happy in his children.
  201. Hard words break no bones.
  202. Hares may pull dead lions by the beard.
  203. Harm watch, harm catch.
  204. Haste makes waste.
  205. Hasty climbers have sudden falls.
  206. Hate not at the first harm.
  207. Hatred is blind, as well as love.
  208. Hawks will not pick hawks' eyes.
  209. He begins to die that quits his desires.
  210. He cannot speak well that cannot hold his tongue.
  211. He carries fire in one hand and water in the other.
  212. He dances well to whom fortune pipes.
  213. He gives twice who gives in a trice.
  214. He goes long barefoot that waits for dead man's shoes.
  215. He is a fool that forgets himself.
  216. He is a good friend that speaks well of us behind our backs.
  217. He is happy that thinks himself so.
  218. He is lifeless that is faultless.
  219. He is not fit to command others that cannot command himself.
  220. He is not laughed at that laughs at himself first.
  221. He is not poor that has little, but he that desires much.
  222. He jests at scars that never felt a wound.
  223. He knows best what good is that has endured evil.
  224. He knows how many beans make five.
  225. He knows much who knows how to hold his tongue.
  226. He laughs best who laughs last.
  227. He lives long that lives well.
  228. He must needs swim that is held up by the chin.
  229. He should have a long spoon that sups with the devil.
  230. He smells best that smells of nothing.
  231. He that comes first to the hill may sit where he will.
  232. He that commits a fault thinks everyone speaks of it.
  233. He that does you an i!i turn will never forgive you.
  234. He that fears every bush must never go a-birding.
  235. He that fears you present wiil hate you absent.
  236. He that goes a borrowing, goes a sorrowing.
  237. He that goes barefoot must not plant thorns.
  238. He that has a full purse never wanted a friend.
  239. He that has a great nose thinks everybody is speaking of it.
  240. He that has an ill name is half hanged.
  241. He that has no children knows not what love is.
  242. He that has He head needs no hat.
  243. He that has no money needs no purse.
  244. He that is born to be hanged shall never be drowned.
  245. He that is full of himself is very empty.
  246. He that is ill to himself will be good to nobody.
  247. He that is warm thinks all so.
  248. He that knows nothing doubts nothing.
  249. He that lies down with dogs must rise up with fleas.
  250. He that lives with cripples learns to limp.
  251. He that mischief hatches, mischief catches.
  252. He that never climbed never fell.
  253. He that once deceives is ever suspected.
  254. He that promises too much means nothing.
  255. He that respects not is not respected.
  256. He that seeks trouble never misses.
  257. He that serves everybody is paid by nobody.
  258. He that serves God for money will serve the devil for better wages.
  259. He that spares the bad injures the good.
  260. He that talks much errs much.
  261. He that talks much lies much.
  262. He that will eat the kernel must crack the nut.
  263. He that will not when he may, when he will he shall have nay.
  264. He that will steal an egg will steal an ox.
  265. He that will thrive, must rise at five.
  266. He that would eat the fruit must climb the tree.
  267. He that would have eggs must endure the cackling of hens.
  268. He who is born a fool is never cured.
  269. He who hesitates is lost.
  270. He who likes borrowing dislikes paying.
  271. He who makes no mistakes, makes nothing.
  272. He who pleased everybody died before he was born.
  273. He who says what he likes, shall hear what he doesn't like.
  274. He who would catch fish must not mind getting wet.
  275. He who would eat the nut must first crack the shell.
  276. He who would search for pearls must dive below.
  277. He will never set the Thames on fire.
  278. He works best who knows his trade.
  279. Head cook and bottle-washer.
  280. Health is not valued till sickness comes.
  281. His money burns a hole in his pocket.
  282. Honesty is the best policy.
  283. Honey is not for the ass's mouth.
  284. Honey is sweet, but the bee stings.
  285. Honour and profit lie not in one sack.
  286. Honours change manners.
  287. Hope is a good breakfast, but a bad supper.
  288. Hope is the poor man's bread.
  289. Hunger breaks stone walls.
  290. Hunger finds no fault with cookery.
  291. Hunger is the best sauce.
  292. Hungry bellies have no ears.
  293. Idle folks lack no excuses.
  294. Idleness is the mother of all evil.
  295. Idleness rusts the mind.
  296. If an ass (donkey) bray at you, don't bray at him.
  297. If ifs and ans were pots and pans...
  298. If my aunt had been a man, she'd have been my uncle.
  299. If the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.
  300. If the sky falls, we shall catch larks.